Just got the most gut-wrenching text after asking my "brother" how his birthday was?

"I spent it in the hospital with my dad, he's dying."

So much going on in life, so much bitterness, anger, worry and well, just a lot of negative emotions. Why live in such an unhappy state all the time? Find the problem and either make a real attempt at fixing it or remove it and move toward to a better way of life for you. People are really making me sick lately. Someone's dad is dying right now... you can't fix that.